My book, Grief Ally,

is now available everywhere.

Grief Ally is the first book focused exclusively on teaching people how to support their loved ones through the long haul of grief. 

Have you read Grief Ally and now you want more help? Check out my services.


Hi, I’m Aly. I’m a coach, author, therapist-in-training, and a widow. My beloved’s death changed everything about me and my life. So much so, that I had to do something about how we treat the bereaved. So I defined Grief Allyship and wrote a book to teach people how to show up and support their grieving loved ones. I’d love to tell you more about me. 


Grief Ally is the only grief book written specifically for the support networks of the bereaved, the people who are asking “what do I do?” and “how do I help?” when someone’s life ends. As the first resource of its kind, Grief Ally will help anyone to climb up the learning curve of grief support faster than has ever been possible.


I offer several services focused on supporting the bereaved and their allies. Take a look at my services page to see how we can work together or if you’re looking for something more specific reach out to me.


Confidence in Bloom Podcast

Confidence in Bloom Podcast

Do you struggle with what to say or what to do for someone who is grieving? I know I do and because I don’t know what is needed from me, I walk away, avoid saying anything and pray they figure it out.

Well, let me introduce you to Aly Bird. Aly is on a mission to change the culture of grief by teaching us what to say and what to do for our loved one(s) that need us!

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Grief Allies & Worthiness Warriors

Grief Allies & Worthiness Warriors

In this episode of Worthiness Warriors, we learn from Aly Bird, a coach, author, and widow, about the importance of being a grief ally and how to support someone who is grieving.

Whether you are going through grief yourself, helping a loved one, or simply want to be prepared for when the time comes, this insightful conversation has valuable advice and empathy for everyone 🎙️💜

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